No one will ever know

I am sure every gay man has had the question asked to them; “Are you the woman or the man”. Society has nobody but themselves to blame. Minorities in our communities were never allowed to be themselves. Some of us were family secrets. Being a homosexual gave some of my friends a permanent status of being black sheep. Some of them never survived the stigma and pressures and never made it in life. Some endured, thrived and survived the unbearable conditions. Times have changed. The “mainstream” regular people look at us as some sort of exhibition. Do you guys do it in the ass, they would inquire. Some would fall on their faces in prayer asking God to save us. Even worse, we would be cursed. But it shouldn’t be like this.

It was not supposed to be a surprise or a shock that a man left his wife for another man. Had we been allowed to and integrated in the society, our lives would not be labelled abominable and a sin. If the church had been in the true spirit of our Lord Christ, we would all co-exist without being demonised. So many women would have been saved from the pain of finding out now that they are married to men who are actually homosexual. Society kept them in their deep, dark closets.

This only made some of the gay men vengeful. They were on the crusade to drag some of these men out of the closet. It hurt people. They didn’t care because it was the only way to get back society. For shackling us and not let us be part of them.

Now that the times are changing, some people are becoming more accepting; some are calling the end of our days.  The end of the world. Well it is the end of the world for you. When you die, it will be the end of you. Just like it will be the end of me when I die. We do not want to be accommodated, we want to be accepted.