Things we couldn't agree on

One famously known fact was the different soccer teams we supported. We adapted so much so we could be a team in conquering all the missions we set our minds on. But Lesley remained a staunch Kaizer Chiefs supporter and I remained a loyal Mamelodi Sundowns fan.  We laughed and teased one another whenever any of our teams lost. But it was always followed by a drink, hug or even a kiss of comfort.

We were never really avid soccer lovers, but had mad love for these teams respectively. Mainly because of where we came from. It was one of those many things that we brought together to concoct the strong bond we had. 

I grew up with a nurtured love for classical music. Lucky for me he appreciated all sorts of music even though he'd make fun of me and my music. We were from completely different worlds. We still made it work. We were always learning how to embrace each other. Sometimes it was through mistakes and sometimes through confessions.  We never took for granted the many years we've known each other. We also didn't take advantage of those years.
Lesley was the one with the bigger heart. He maintained our tradition. The good night kiss and the good morning kiss. And he'd still come for the see you later kiss. Whether I was upset with him or not. And that's why I say I knew love because of this man.
Writing about him won't warm this bed or myself like he used to. But it will keep the love we had alive.
We both hated being away from each other. And so we punctuated each other's day with calls and text messages. We were telepathic and knew when to call. I will miss that. I will miss coming home to you baby.